How to Meet Your Online Lover in Person

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The basics safety guidelines of meeting an online lover in person for the first time are the same as those I’m sure you’d follow on any first date: Tell someone where you’ll be and when, arrange to check in by phone at a certain time, get your date’s full name and contact information, and avail yourself of some Google searches before agreeing to meet (and make sure to meet in a public place).
But there’s more. Meeting an online lover in person carries with it a heady mix of anticipation, desire, and expectation—balanced against your intellectual understanding that things might not work out as you hope.

Meeting Kit

  • Safer sex supplies: Condoms, dental dams, lube, arnica ( in case you get delightful bruises you don’t want to bring home)
  • Toys or other props that have special meaning for the two of you
  • The address and phone numbers of alternate lodgings in case you need to go to get to a safe place quick
  • Pajamas, toothbrush, clean underwear
  • Enough cash for cab fare if you need to leave in a hurry
  • A credit or debit card with enough room on it to get yourself out of there in the event of an emergency or a threat to your personal safety
  • Phone numbers of local friends, or friends of friends
  • Objects you’ve wanted to show each other: photo albums, figurines, clothing, fetish wear
  • Presents!
  • Find the rest of this lesson and thousands more sexier sex tips in:

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by Regina Lynn

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2 responses to “How to Meet Your Online Lover in Person

  1. Have a friend who knows where you are — and arrange a time you will call them (this can be a time range, so they know to be at their phone). but also, for the truly paranoid (and you really should be), make sure you have an agreed-upon safeword that, if not brought up in the conversation, means that you’re not actually okay.

  2. I seocnd what Kyle said. This post should have said A LOT more about safety.

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