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How to Take Sexy Self-Portraits

Cameras are everywhere. Sooner or later, you’re going to be caught in a compromising position. Picking your nose as you run a red light. Adjusting your stockings as Google’s street-view team cruises by. Handing your phone around the table in a mutual-gadget-admiration moment with a dozen coworkers, only to realize you haven’t deleted Those Pictures from the album. (That one actually happened to me. Sigh.)

A cell phone camera is all you need to get started, although a small digital camera gives you higher quality images. These first shots aren’t for sharing, but rather for learning what the digital eye does to you, and for you, from various distances and angles.

  • Look to classic pin-up poses for inspiration. These flatter every body and have an element of tease and sauce that never goes out of style.
  • If you discover a touch of exhibitionism through your experiments, invest in a mobile device with a high-resolution camera and a self-timer.
  • Hold the camera above your face and slightly to the side to emphasize your eyes and cheekbones.
  • Learn to smile without clenching your facial muscles. It feels horribly fake at first, but works well in pictures. Better yet, cultivate a knowing, subtle quirk of the lip that implies you are just seconds from ripping your clothes off and jumping on your lover.
  • Flushed cheeks, wide eyes and parted lips are signs of sexual arousal in both sexes. You can fake it by pinching your skin, biting your lips and opening your eyes slightly wider than usual. Too wide and you’ll just look surprised or alien, so practice in a mirror until you get the right feel of it.

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by Regina Lynn

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How to Reveal Yourself (and How to Know When It’s Time)

Many people reach a point in an online relationship when they realize they want to reveal themselves utterly to another person.

It’s hard to say when the “right time” is. As with most relationships, you’ll need to make your decisions based on what works for the two of you and what you feel is right.

Here are some general tips for when to exchange full names:

  • You start talking about meeting in person and are already researching airfares and hotels.
  • You are talking frankly about your job, your life, your kids, your friends, and your hobbies, and only then realize that you’ve been perfectly comfortable doing so all along.
  • You realize you feel closer to this person than almost anyone else in your life, and you would like to hear them whisper your name rather than your handle.

Once you exchange names, search for each other like crazy, digging up old high school photos or blog posts or book reviews you posted to Amazon ten years ago. This is where you reveal yourself as a person with a past—and perhaps as a person with some ’splainin’ to do. (It’s a good idea to Google yourself beforehand so you know what your lover is going to see.)

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by Regina Lynn

How to Seduce Someone in 160 Characters or Less

Text messages are the best thing for couples since the invention of the cell phone. It doesn’t matter if you’re freshly dating or if you’ve been together for years—a text is the perfect compromise between flirting and productivity.

Ten Tips for Titillating Text:

  • Mix it up. Be romantic, funny, erotic, matter-of-fact and pornographic by turns.
  • Use abbreviations sparingly, but use them when you need them.• In the beginning of a new hetero relationship, the woman is usually the one to set the tone (for example: family, flirty, or filthy.)• Sometimes it’s hotter to use the longer word rather than the shorter one.
  • Triple-check the recipient’s address before you press Send.
  • It’s better to craft original text than paste canned phrases from a list. But it’s okay to quote song lyrics, books, movies, and anything else that holds meaning for the two of you.
  • Women are often more sexually explicit in text messages than they are out loud. At first.
  • You can send text messages to your lover’s phone from your computer at sites like http://www.txt2day.com and http://tools.google.com/firefox/sendtophone/index.html.
  • You know the relationship is going well if the two of you start developing an SMS shorthand all your own.
  • If texting becomes part of the foundation of your relationship, invest in a phone with a qwerty keyboard.

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by Regina Lynn

How to Improve Your Body Image

Playing on the Internet can help you become more comfortable in your own skin long after you log off. That same wit and sensuality you radiate online still lives within you the rest of the time; the more you practice letting it out, the more natural it becomes.

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Body confidence is sexy and infuses every dimension of our lives, not just sex.

  • Unless all porn truly offends you, surf amateur  porn to see the wide range of bodies engages in sex. Sex often looks ridiculous, but bodies in lusty pursuits are also rather beautiful, especially when you can see the erotic emotional connection among the participants.
  • Set up your webcam and practice posing until you find a few positions and angles that please you. This is like those body-image exercises performed in front of a mirror, except the tiny frame and the semi-grainy quality of the picture create and entirely different experience, as does the knowledge that once you do start seeing you body in terms of the beauty of its lights and shadows, you can share it with other people with a few clicks. (see “How to Look Great on Web-cam,” page 111)

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by Regina Lynn